Finding a husband out there is not a problem. The problem is finding a perfect husband whom you will get married to and stick to the marriage forever.
Here are some simple ways of finding a perfect husband:
• First of all, be the perfect wife yourself
Finding a man should not change you in any way. Don’t try to change yourself into a person you are not just because of a man. A perfect man for you will with no doubt understand and love you just the way you are. The best thing is to model yourself into some woman you admire in your life and maybe try to change some defects you feel you do not like yourself.
• You should know what you are looking for in a man
You should be able to know the qualities you are looking for in a man and your future marriage. Does the man has common goals as you do? Look at the culture, character, values among other things that the man has.
• Overcome your past mistakes and be ready to make more mistakes
You should not allow your past mistakes to haunt you. Let the bygones be bygones. Simply correct your past mistakes and move on. Be ready in case you make other mistakes in the future because no one can be perfect. Be ready to forgive and to be forgiven.
• Family and friends would be of great help
Talk to your family and close friend whom you think know you better. Tell them the kind of man you think you like. Ask them what type of man they think would be perfect for you. Be prepared for both positive and negative feedback when asking them.
• Go for blind dates
Blind dates can be the beginning of perfect relationships. Simply tell your friends to hook you up with a man they think can be good for you. First, get to know each other and if you like him, you can take your relationship to the next level.
• Patience is a key to finding a perfect man
Don’t force yourself into a relationship without knowing your man well. Don’t rush into breaking up with your man because he has made one or two mistakes. Expect a human being. Be able to understand and forgive your man every now and then.
After finding the perfect man, you should simply get married. By this, I mean staying married forever. You as a wife play a very important role in making sure that your marriage is a success. Here are some of the important roles and responsibilities you should do to ensure your marriage is a success:
• First and foremost, you should respect your man: A husband needs a woman who will honor, encourage and remain committed to him.
• Be your husband’s helper: A woman should help her husband in many different ways. He needs you, and you need him.
• Love your husband: A woman should love her husband unconditionally. Love your husband just as he is. Appreciate all his perfects and imperfections. Ensure that you fulfill your husband’s sexual desire.
• Last but not least, submit yourself to your husband: This does not mean being inferior to your husband. It does not mean being used and abused. This simply means fulfilling your responsibilities as a wife voluntarily.
By all this, we simply see that a woman is key to a happy marriage. It is this simple, look for a perfect man and play your role as a good wife.1